Hypnosis for Sexual Issues Online Live Video or Cairns
Eric Erectile Dysfunction & How Hypnosis helped him get his Mojo back
Eric came to see me as he had a problem with keeping an erection. It probably sounds amusing that at the time he saw me he was seeing not one but three women. It was anything but funny for Eric as the only reason he was with three women was that he was hoping that one would help him with his problem of erectile dysfunction. He had been separated from his wife for 2 years and had had a particularly bad breakup with her and still had a lot of feelings for her. Obviously Eric had to find a way to fade away those feelings which were interfering with his sex life with other partners. He was also on anti-depressants of which some definitely interfere with the physical process of getting and maintaining an erection. Hypnosis for Sexual Issues Online Live Video or Cairns was able to assist Eric
So keeping in mind the medication that Eric was on we still had that grey matter between his ears that we could influence via hypnotic suggestions with his permission. Teaching him how to physically relax with breathing and visualisation was key as was accepting his marriage break up and reminding and reinforcing his confidence as a man and especially sexually. Again this is done via visualisation, a regression back to being sexually free and liberated and future projection seeing himself as very sexually competent. Of course, choice of language becomes important and as you can imagine i will use whatever words and images that work for Eric.
I work out the suggestions with the client that are going to work for him or her and then I bundle them up and put them in the hypnosis and thereafter the client is in “trance” they can be presented and accepted by the subconscious mind.” Hypnosis works brilliantly with repetition so Eric receives the recorded session I give him and listens to that for a minimum of 31 days. You are reprogramming your brain your thoughts and putting in a good helpful belief. Along with the hypnosis the client’s medical history is taken and examined and of course, good nutrition, good sleep habits and god exercise routines are an essential part of the client’s sexual recovery. Any anxiety is also addressed and other holistic therapies recommended like Yoga and meditation.
Eric saw me for 3 sessions of hypnosis and at last, report was reporting very good progress and experiencing sustaining erections a lot of the time. Importantly, he now had the ongoing hypnosis recordings and strategies to help him in this area.
How can Hypnosis help women with sexual issues?
Many women suffer an inability to relax or to reach an orgasm. Perhaps because of a bad experience, some form of abuse or simply being unable to relax enough. In hypnosis the client learns to actively relax and then we can address the blocks or issues. We do this via suggestions and guided imagery and attaching the required feelings. Repetition is the key here and the session recording very important for that reinforcement of the suggestions. In order to make that permanent change in behaviour. Some women suffer Vaginismus. This is where the vagina involuntarily tightens just before sex. The mind creates this psychosexual problem. Hypnotherapy helps to reverse the fear of it happening, instead your subconscious is re-programmed to feel relaxed and calm as penetration is attempted.
Porn Addiction Are you addicted to porn?
Watching porn is a very normal activity most of the time unless you become obsessed with it and it starts to negatively affect you and your significant other. Relationships can be destroyed through the addiction – either because the partner discovers the habit and interprets it as being a form of infidelity / rejection or because the user of porn can suffer from such feelings of inadequacy – combined with an increased desensitisation to sexual activity – that sexual dysfunctions can follow. Like erectile dysfunction because ‘normal’ sex comes to appear less than satisfactory when compared to online porn. Because they feel guilty about watching porn or project their sexual expectations onto their partner. Who cannot replicate the women in the porn movies.
Others can suffer because they satisfy themselves through porn and then have nothing left for their partners. That first unexpected experience of impotence can hit them hard, so to speak, and leave them lacking in confidence into the future.
Another potential problem is that people who hurry to finish their use of porn can literally teach themselves to ejaculate prematurely. I don’t think I need to explain how that could begin to become a problem
Hypnosis will help the client address the triggers that cause them to be obsessed with porn and install a new response, behavior feeling. Hypnosis seeks via suggestions and guided imagery and emotions, future projection to create a new sexual identity. Of course this new behavior has to repeated for some time and that is where the listening to the session recordings are vital.
Mindfulness techniques will be taught to the client and meditation. Self esteem will be built up and confidence with the client.
We recommend between one and three sessions. This can be finalised during the first appointment
- 1x 2hour session and session recording
- Bonus recordings
- Online meditation